HI it is odd but my wife and I are bi and have children. I have not been with a man (or a woman or transgender)since we got married. We agreed to an open marriage. The issue is going to sound odd but – we agreed to have s** with others but we don’t. We are in an open marriage but we don’t act on it. Now some might go, what the hell is the problem you ain’t sleeping with others, but we are not monogamous. The only reason it became a problem, aside from the fact we are both working and the children take up time, is because a friend invited us to a swingers party, we said no, we was fine with it. I said to her, I still like men and women and others, she said yes, but we sat down and went, we are going to keep the marriage open but we have not had s** with anyone but each other. Problem solved, yes, but like I went camping with a male friend and he was n*** and he didn’t come onto me but I didn’t want to come on to him, so our marriage is open but we don’t sleep with others. If that’s a problem for others I don’t care.