I met my father for the first time when I was 27. At the time I met my 13 year old sister and 3 brothers. I am the oldest, now it is a year later, I want to visit them for a week after thanksgiving. This is my problem, when we went out to lunch she made sure she sat beside me, when I came to the house, I came outside to watch TV in a space my dad built and she was there beside me, my sister always wanted me to pay attention to her, sit by me, tell me what she wanted to do for a living, brag about her life story. I left from there, she listens to Slipknot. I had no idea what she liked before but that seems like a big step, is that what she thinks I’m into or she likes it to? First of all I’m into heavy metal not nu metal. I am nervous as f*** about staying in the same house for more than a few days. Could I be over reacting about this?