I feel like you’re jumping the gun a bit, my SO. I understand that things are hard for you and that you dumped your sob story on me when we first met, but you’re clingy, way more clingy than I ever was with any of my ex lovers. I wasnt sure how to react when you said you loved me on the first day we met. This soon? Shouldnt we slow down? I like you, I really do, but I feel that you need to cool your jets. I understand how the pattern works by now: we get together, we’re in love, either I lose interest or feel trapped or you dont love me like I love you, then we split. But this time, its different. Youre the clingy one and I am the one who’s not able to return those feelings fully. Should I wait for you to burn yourself out? Or should I keep going on as I am now, sending massive amounts of lovey-dovey sap in response to your own and having mediocre conversations at best with you? Im not sure, but Ill let you make your move.
