I am sure I will be left with my father if anything happens. I am married to my mother now, which is not great being a girl, that no nice guys ever look at or bother to talk to, etc. and I will be married to my dad afterwards. stop dreaming its ever gonna work out. get real. I wish I could win. I really do. no one has a right to break my family up just for me to get a nice man or job. that logic is just insane!