I have been in a steady relationship with my boyfriend of 3 years. I am very much in love with him. He has talked about marriage in the near future and a home and kids within a few years. I want to spend the rest of my life with him. He does everything and more a woman could dream of and I never want to let go of him. The problem is I also have another boyfriend who I have been seeing for a year. I love him just as much as my live-in boyfriend. Is it possible to be deeply in love with two men at the same time? He has 3 daughters and a broken marriage. We connect on so many levels and we have grown to love each other so strongly. He cant leave his wife until his girls get older because she has threatened to turn the girls on him if he leaves. He knows about my current relationship and I want to marry my live-in boyfriend and even though he mentioned kids in the future, I am pushing 30 and ready for one now. So I talked to my other boyfriend about give me a child. We have talked about it quite a bit and he said he would but I would obviously lose my future with my live-in boyfriend and I wouldnt be able to be with my other boyfriend for a long time because of his marital status and because of his girls. Am I absolutely crazy?? Who do I choose? I love them both the same. My married boyfriend wants to give me the world whenever I want it and my live-in boyfriend gives me everything else. My live-in boyfriend is a few years younger than me and sometimes we arent on the same timeline in life. My other boyfriend is a little older and understands where I am mentally and emotionally. Why cant I just openly have them both? What do I do?
