I’m a 16 year old girl and i’ve kind of stopped really trusting my mom with everything like i used to, I feel like she would just argue with me or start calling me a “b****” and how i’m so ungrateful. So i usually refrain from telling her anything personal and I regret almost all the things I told her in the past. I still love her but I don’t nesisarily trust her with too much. She often times yells out my personal business to the entire house if she gets mad at me and I don’t appreciate it. Yesterday I was using the restroom and she just barged in on me with out knock or anything she startled me to be honest. I thought she was just going to tell me to hurry up(we were about to leave the house) as you may assume this was very embarrassing for me! So later that day I told her that was embarrassing for me, why did you do that ? I wasn’t really looking for her to tell me why she did it i just wanted her to think about that and why i may not have appreciated it. she started talking about what i was doing in the bathroom and how long i was in there( i had only been in there for 5 minutes or so maybe and the only thing i could do was poop or pee because it was a toilet room) She asked me why i didn’t tell her if i had to do 1 or 2 so she wouldn’t have had to go in with me. I said I didn’t feel that was anybody’s business or that you wanted to know that. she startes asking me again what took me so long I had to explain to her what i was doing and embarrassing things like that. she repeatedly called me a liar and threatened to kick me. I just said but why did you just open up the door on me that was embarrassing, how come you didn’t just knock or say hurry up( that’s what my father would’ve done) She just starts swearing at me and saying don’t tell me what to do in my house u disrespectful p************ (her calling me these names whenever she is mad at me is very degrading and she’s done it as long as i can remember). I really wasn’t trying to be disrespectful i just didn’t want her to walk in on me like that i don’t even care about the rest or who was wrong or right. I just don’t want to be embarrassed in that way again. She did hurt my feelings by what she was saying and the fact that after i ran upstairs she continued to shout out insults at me and telling me to go use the bathroom at a restaurant. I just went to sleep I honestly trust her wayyy less now i honestly don’t want her help with anything anymore. I’m not perfect , did i do something wrong was i being disrespectful? I wasn’t meaning to i’d apologize if i was i just don’t know. I am just often hurt by her actions. She is a good mother and ik she tries but that is the only flaw i can think of that a she has and it’s really hard to deal with