I am talking to an older guy. We have been messing around for a couple of months almost to a year. Anyways, he likes to say we aren’t in a relationship yet only sleeping with each other but can talk to other people. He recently flipped through my phone and sent my friend a message. And he sees no boundary because we aren’t in a relationship. He said he can’t see us together due to no commonality. I asked him to not speak to her. As a friends with benefits is this rational?
