My ex dated a girl that I was very good friends with for a long time. She and I haven’t spoken in 9 months (the duration of their relationship). I thought I would be happy when they finally broke up because she just kinda abandoned me…but I honestly can’t stand the thought of someone going through what I went through. So I messaged her for the first time in almost a year. I really hope I can make her feel better. I hate to see anyone feel as bad as I did. I just can’t stand it.