I don’t like my best friend. She’s annoying, girly, and way to emotional! She’s always crying about one of my jokes or gossiping or just plain out judging people by their looks (even her friends! I wouldn’t be surprised if she did it to me) AND worst of all she’s homophobic and the main reason I’m still in the closet. I’m not coming out anytime soon because of how much s*** she knows about me from my real bff who thinks that she’s cool (doesn’t know how much my bff knows about the s*** she talks tho). Really, the only reason I started to hang with her was because she was new to our old school and I was assigned to show her around. I asked about where she got this nice diamond ring on her finger and she started sobbing about her mum dying. I felt so bad for her that the only thing that’s been riding out our relationship is the sympathy I have for her mum and 2 more personal problems I cannot spill. But over 5 years that sympathy is running dry and I’m desperately trying to escape the friendship without hurting her so much yo where she would spill all my secrets and spread false rumours. I’m considering coming out just as a way to tell her to f*** off but idk!?! PLZ HELP