My wife has been cheating on me for over 4 years now. For the sake of our kids and keeping our family together I don’t get a divorce. I love my wife but she does not love me and loves this other married man. They have gone back and forth to leaving their spouses and being together but have never worked it out. I am sad every day of my life knowing that my wife is thinking about another man. She even has a shirt of his that she wears that she doesn’t know I know about. Very few people know about this and most believe we are a great family.