I’m a 33-yo black woman and I never thought I would be with a white guy. Now I’m secretly seeing one. I had a baby at 18 and every man I’ve ever been with was black. I live in the south and with my family nobody does that. But I was attracted to my son’s 29-yo soccer coach and I could tell he was attracted to me too. We flirted for months and one day we met. We were having s** within an hour. He wants to have a relationship but he understands my concerns. I don’t really know where this is going.