So I had a stalker for a while who kept following me home from work and from home to shopping or to friends, and he literally followed me everywhere for like the first month and I didn’t really notice until he presented himself on a fake profile telling me that he had enough blackmail on me to ruin my life. I took my cousin to the lake one day and my stalker took a pic of us swimming together and he said he was going to tell my job I was f****** him if I didn’t date him. He added all of my social media friends on Facebook, which is now private for good and I hardly get on. He managed to find my family members, messaged everyone one of my friends on the fake profile saying that he was my boyfriend and that I was too timid to introduce him. He said that I was behaving really oddly and doing drugs and he was worried. They all were calling me and messaging me non stop for weeks about it. I got calls at work threatening my life. He called one day and told my boss, the owner, because I’m next in authority, that I refused to help him with purchase of a membership at our company, and my boss watched the cameras and found out that he had been sitting in the parking lot watching me work for two hours straight, and then he called the police to remove him from the property. He came back in a rental car with tinted windows and bought a membership on that vehicle, which later used to say that I signed him up without permission and when my boss heard his name on the complaint message, he filed a police report for stalking and criminal trespassing. I reduced this man to s*** once he pulled into my mothers driveway and sent me a photo of him standing in her driveway with blood on his wrist and a blade in his hand threatening to kill himself if I didn’t talk to him or respond to his messages on the hundreds of fake accounts he makes daily just to harass me. He tries to make me feel secluded and alone, but everyone luckily knows of him and what he does because I recorded EVERYTHING. He sent a video one time from a fake Snapchat after getting mine from some friends on fb that he told he was my friend and trying to get my snap. So he sent the video of him, showing only his left side of his eye up, and with that and his voice, the judge gave him jail time for stalking, and granted me a PTO against him so he couldn’t come within 1,000 feet of me from the stack of evidence I had. Pictures of his arm with the blade that he had, and the corner bottom of a camper he was staying in thy gave it away when the judge asked where he was living and he said the camper, and then when I presented the evidence, he said that he was homeless. The judge told him to shut up and for the officers to take him away. He was crying being pulled to jail. When he got out, it only got worse. He got smarter, didn’t send anymore evidence like the stuff I had used against him in court. He kept his name off stuff, kept anything that would tie him to the accounts and kept hidden for a while. Didn’t start showing up until he was at my cousins house and I went over after work to smoke with some friends and him when we saw stalkers car down the road parked by a house we know the people that lives there. I took out my phone hit record, jumped in my car and took off to get his face and his tag number so he would get charged breaking my TPO (temporary protective order) against him and he would get a year up to ten years max depending on the ruling. He had threatened this cousin as well, used the fake accounts to stalk and harass him and even told some kids that went to his school that he would pay them to beat him up but my cousin knew them well, and he defused it. So chasing the stalker, I got his face, him driving crazily slamming on his breaks in front of me in a 4 lane highway leaving black tire marks and almost made us hit him and the car behind us almost hit us. Then he sped off again. I called the police and had them come and look at the evidence because previously they had told me the call wasn’t enough evidence to do anything about it that I needed proof. Well the officer didn’t like the video I took because I was driving and videoing the stalker and his wreck less driving and the officer blamed me for following him and told me he could fine me for stalking him. It was crazy. So I got smarter too. Messaged him back and told him to pull up if he had the balls. He was livid. So mad that he dropped his guard thinking he had his guard up. Thought he was gonna meet me at a spot 20 miles out, while I was parked down the road from his camper. Walked to the camper with a mask and s*** in so no one could get me on camera etc, and I saw that the camper was full of drugs and wallets and different ID’s. So I burned the whole f****** thing down. I had a torch lighter and my cologne. No evidence. Bye bye stalker man’s r*** room.
