To: My mother passed away when I was 26. Me: I feel for you, I really do. Although I’ve never had kids of my own, I have brought up 5 step kids over 2 marriages and according to social media, only 2 of those are still alive – the last time I checked, a year or so ago.
You should get married if you can. Don’t live your life alone, because of what happened to your mother. You could always have your tubes tied, so that you can’t pass onto your potential kids the Gene, which killed your mother and might try to do you. Both of my rotten parents died from Cancer and I have a s*** test every year to make sure there is no blood in my stools – which would mean a Colonoscopy (I’ve had a few of those) and emergency treatment to cut any Cancer out – so far, so good – at 73. I have met women with incurable diseases and occasionally fallen in love with them, but they have refused any commitment, because they felt it would be unfair, yet I’ve spent the last 20 something years looking after women, because they had the need, which I was and am happy to fill. So don’t isolate yourself. Do have a relationship with someone around your age, if that’s what you want, but don’t have any kids and like me, do a yearly s*** test for blood in your stools (you should be able to get the test from your local Chemist, or Doctor) and have a great life, not one waiting for the bomb to drop on you, like it did your mother.
Best Wishes………………..
