• 2 months ago

Oh nooo! LOL That’s why I say i’m so confused!!! I thought this person was really cool, I told him right away that I have a bf, and I did want to make a new friend with him but.. I don’t know if he’s truly interested in being just friends which makes it feel all wrong. I hate to come off as ‘mean’ to someone I just met so that makes it harder for me to say no when he puts me on the spot by asking me to go somewhere with him so blatantly.. But the more I think about it, the more I think he knows what he’s doing. He said something like ‘i’m not even asking you the hard questions yet, I can go deeper’ when he was asking about my current bf. I dunno.. Kinda.. intimidating. He says yeah were hanging out as friends but he’s very good at reading body language – very calculated. I don’t want to admit it but I may be outmatched. So I may need to take a step back. I’m not very good at reading peoples intentions.(naive?) Idk, I like to give others the benefit of the doubt but idk what to think at this point. Maybe I should just ghost him. Oh and I don’t drink, especially not with strangers! . . mainly because I do get sloppy LOL good guess.