I was cleaning my son’s room the other day, found a box under his bed. He is 14 yo. Inside was a mess of confusion. I was shocked to find a bag of weed, some pipes and papers. But most shocking, I found 3 pairs of my p******. I found a cellphone that had pictures of me getting dressed, a couple of videos of me getting in and out of the shower (taken from under the door) , but most shocking was a video of him coming in my room in the middle of the night, slowly pulling the covers down and lifted my nightshirt exposing my body, he stood there a minute, then took his fingers and rubbed something on my lips (I got a pretty good guess what it was).
Super confused, not mad, but confused