I’ve never done f*** buddies before. What’s the protocol? tips and advice? I don’t want to fall for this dude just because he wants to sleep with me. I’m very much a loner, I don’t want a relationship but I’m still a human being with stupid emotions.
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Fall for a guy who only wants everything.
I hate being mistaken for a guy who just wants sex, because I’m not, I really am not, I want a lot, I like it that way and it’s shit guys won’t admit to wanting. I like laying there doing nothing, watching tv. But sex and things like that making out need to be there too at some point, but it is nice to take it easy at first. Slow is good. I never pressure for things because I’m confident that eventually things happen. I think thats one of my weakness when I’m interested in a woman, I have a relative type, sometimes it’s subconscious and I don’t even realize it until I think about it one day, but I try too hard not to be that guy, I assume most women I’m into don’t want a guy dripping from every orifice every time he looks at her and I think when it comes to me it shorts circuits because I’m trying too hard to not be that guy, they dont know what to make of it and it costs me things. I just want to snuggle and make out. I’m civil and patient. I’m not dead though. I need some loving. I’m fully functional especially if I like her.
Basically you’re friends with benefits. You might even just hang out and talk sometimes. You might not even see or hear from each other for weeks.
I love those kinds of relationships, not that I like distance but if I like her I wouldn’t mind seeing her often but you know I wouldn’t expect it and space is also good for you and the relationship whatever that may be. That’s the way I see relationships and if they get deeper, they get deeper. If not, they dont. If you like each other, you try to give each other as much of whatever they need as you possible can when they need it and hopefully they do the same and things last.
Nothing wrong with feelings if they are based on the real shit.
Unless the guy is actually a retarded fuck monkey and that’s all you want too, a good FUCKING, then my advice is dive right on in there….
Dont do it, get a dildo, eat pasta with ragu sauce, and drink wine. And you’ll be fine. Why? Because these dudes ain’t nothing but swine. And that’s the bottom line.
Also you dont have to worry about stds and pregnancies. Ya feel me?
Don’t do it! I thought I could just have a FWB and 3 weeks in he’s telling me he’s in love. Six years later, multiple times of breaking up and getting back together…I can honestly say I wish I had never met him. You end up catching feelings even though you think you won’t.