Person advising not to be with someone twice their age because it’s not reciprocated I disagree.
I have known a girl in her 20’s, who I was quite literally afraid of, reel me in slowly, win me over, and I am a hurt and cautious man, change my mind. She had me believing I wanted to do something with her. I waited as patiently as I could for a good time to ask her if she wanted to do something. She politely declined and for real legit reasons I accepted and understood.
Now, really, when I say I wanted to do something, I mean I just wanted some closeness to a woman, who I believe genuinelylikes me and who I like and want to love myself. That really doesn’t happen often for me. Believe me, if I believe there is something there in 2019, me, you better believe it’s not just being interpreted wrong by me and she was just being nice. I know that. I’m not that bad of a guy my age. I take care of myself and I have genetics
I don’t know. I tried, she declined, and I think she’s fine. She ended up getting with a guy who I believe is good for her better all around for her than I am shortly, like weeks after.
What kind of a guy would I be if I just popped up now expecting it to be different and it isn’t? I do think there is a chance that she didn’t really want to say no, there is a lot to take in with the idea, I know, but I think with her it’s not just saying “sure” because in her end, not so much on my end, but in her end, it’s about other people and what they would think too. I think with me, I look younger than my age, boys do call me “sir” often which kind of pisses me off, like if I walk into a school to drop something off, I get kids holding the doors for me saying “here you go, sir” “f*** you kid, rock and roll… where the music roomnroom, we are having a rock off right f****** now! Who has the weed?” But I’m alright. I could go back but like I said she seems fine and what kind of a guy would that make me if she doesn’t want to see me again? She would be torn about it. I believe she was. I know she likes/liked me but on the other hand its not just about her. I don’t think it would be a big deal to anyone in my life. My aunt, who isn’t much older than I am was with 40 year old men when she was 20, 21. Pilots and musicians. No one I know would question it. Her though
I would love nothing more than some love from her and give it to her and do things. It’s not about just the s** either.
