Hey, I need some advice. I’m thinking about confronting one of my friends for fully abandoning our friendship (not talking, never inviting me, not saying happy birthday) but I really don’t want to lose her as a friend. What do y’all think?
Hey, I need some advice. I’m thinking about confronting one of my friends for fully abandoning our friendship (not talking, never inviting me, not saying happy birthday) but I really don’t want to lose her as a friend. What do y’all think?
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maybe she’s depressed
she spends a lot of time with other friends and seeing the messages in the main group chat seems it’s going pretty well and that she is happy and she knows I have been having a rough time as well but the only thing I ever got was ”oh no :(” I feel like I’m investing too much in this friendship.
update : I have send a message
Just reach out, not everyone is able to keep up with ‘normal social’ interactions with everyone they know. If you think something has changed, ask her if everything is okay on her end, or maybe if you’ve done anything to offend. If you feel she is not valuing your friendship or caring about your concerns then find other better friends.