Ever since I was little, like elementary school age, I have desperately wanted to be a mom. Most of my life goals revolve around having a happy family. As I’ve gotten older, I am currently 18, this desire has only grown. I get bouts where I want a baby so badly I will drag one of my old baby dolls out of storage to try and simulate the feeling of holding a child of my own. It’s also has caused me to develop a breeding/ impregnation kink. I feel weird about wanting a child so bad at such a young age, and have felt bad about it since middle school when I realized that most people don’t want a baby as badly as I do.
To make things even more complicated, I’m non-binary, so I feel almost guilty about wanting to be a mom, especially as I really want to breast feed my future child and get top surgery. I wish pregnancy and the more gentle, caring aspects of parenthood weren’t seen as things strictly for women. I really want to carry/ nurse my future children (not that parents that can’t do those things aren’t any less valid, they are just experiences I want to experience as I am lucky enough to do so) but I don’t want people taking my gender identity less seriously just because I want to have a bio-child in the way that I am capable.
In conclusion my desire for a baby is something I have struggled with for a while now, and needed to get off my chest.
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Im exactly the same except for the non binary part, but i don’t really think it would impact u that much in terms of your dreams of motherhood, and also ots nice to know that im not the only “weird” one 😂
You’re never going to breastfeed a child. There is no surgery that allows biological men to breastfeed, and there won’t be in our lifetimes. Pregnancy is “seen” as something for women because it physically and biologically is something only women do. It isn’t a matter of changing social perception. It’s become fashionable to claim manhood and womanhood are just about how you feel, but that’s pure nonsense.
There’s nothing wrong with being a non-traditional man or with being trans, but anyone who indulges you with delusions contrary to the above is lying to you to make themselves feel good, and that doesn’t help you.
You’re an ignorant shit. Men can lactate also. They just need hormones.
It’s okay honey, I’m 21 years old and I’ve wanted to be a Mum for as long as I remember. Too bad everybody Irl DEMANDS women be scientists or fucking rocket scientist and I’m seen as sexist to my own gender because I want to be a stay at home Mom :/
exactly!!
You would all be shitty mothers only doing it to satisfy yourselves. Please never reproduce.
Hey, if you want to ruin your life by having kids, don’t let me stop you.