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Need help! Should I tell my ex that I still love him when we’ve been talking daily for about 4 months now after a year of being apart. It’s killing me when I love him and don’t know how he feels

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  • I’m in my late 20s, and am starting to realize a great truth: love is really hard to find, so if you like or love someone, why keep it a secret from them? Tell him. He may have the same feelings but is scared to make the first move. TELL HIM! SHOUT IT! wishing you both the best ? (Please let me know what happens!!)

    Anonymous June 2, 2018 9:31 am Reply
    • I’ll hopefully get to soon, I’m just worried about ruining to friendship I’ve got with him now. I don’t want to have to start all over again and get ignored for having feelings for him if there’s the chance he doesn’t like me back ?

      Anonymous June 2, 2018 12:05 pm Reply
      • Does he give you any indication he wants a relationship?
        Also, I don’t mean to sound harsh, but it looks like you want a relationship and if he doesn’t, you may be wasting your time with him when you could find another wonderful man who will love you with all of his heart. Life is too short and if he ignores your feelings, may be it’s time to move on and just be friends with him. Four months, I think, is long enough for you to ask him. If he says yes, great ❤, if he says no, don’t waste any more time- start dating again. Here’s to finding the loves of our lives! Cheers!

        Anonymous June 2, 2018 1:12 pm Reply
        • Well I haven’t been all that forward about liking him because I don’t want to screw up what he have already, I want to just tell him believe me, I’m just worried over the outcome I guess. And yeah he’s given me somewhat of an indication he’d be ok with it, like catching up for coffee’s etc and given genuine compliments again.

          Anonymous June 2, 2018 2:02 pm Reply
  • From a guys perspective ,why did you break?
    If you decide to tell him ,don’t blert it out.
    Set it up right ,set the mood fun,sit close, be sincere
    If this is the guy you love,it should be forever.
    Take his hand look him in the eyes. Show him you love him just by your look. Then the sell,your mistake ,your realizing just what he means to you.ask for a second chance, you can start slow coffee, a lunch ,date here and there.let him see your serious. Don’t get mad if he
    Challenges you keep calm.he’s getting defensive only to protect his heart.he is scared also if rejection!!
    If he says no he can’t go through that pain again……
    Then go for it ,tell him of your undeliable love and ask him to marry you!!!!!!
    If you truly love him this is your destiny anyway!!!!
    I hope you get him back.remember guys have feeling and fear rejection and heartache too. But love will always win!!

    Anonymous June 2, 2018 5:34 pm Reply
    • We broke up because I was too full on, I was immature about it an doubted how he felt about me and always thought I wasn’t good enough and it caused him to end it. I’m going to tell him I’m sorry for it all and that I still love him eventually, I’ll just have to find that right time to. I’ve been in another relationship since him but the guy was doing what I did, he messaged 24/7, was very forceful and so I saw things from my ex’s POV

      Anonymous June 2, 2018 11:33 pm Reply

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