Recently found my mom having s** with another woman (that i know!)?
1st of all this is not a troll question. and is sort of long but please read it all.
my mom is married to a man (stepfather, who conveniently works night shift from 6am-2am) and i always thought they were happy together.
i was leaving the house yesterday to go hang out with friends and she was like “when will you be back?” i said “idk, probably around 10pm” she said alright and so i left (btw im 17) i got home around 7pm walked thru the front door and i heard s** sounds. i walked upstairs and they were coming from my moms room, it sounded like there were 2 women, but i didnt want to be nosy, so i just went back down stairs and watched TV in the livingroom. i still heard the s** sounds over the sound of the TV so i txted my firend “ay, my moms irritatin me is it ok if i come back over” and he ssaid “sure, but my mom said you cant stay the night” i said “alright whatever” (his mom isnt my biggest fan) and so i left. we played black ops until about 9:30 and so i left thinking my moms probly expects me to be coming home, so she’s done. and so i get home, walk in, and to my surprise, i see my mom’s best friends SISTER and i heard my mom say “..etter than last week” and they when my mom came saw me here face went pale, sort of like her friends sister’s face. i just said “oh hi i didnt expect to see you” her friends sister said “oh hey i was jus leaving, nice seeing you tho” and she walked out. i looked at my mom and she was like “we were just talking about stuff and lost track of time. i said “oh *cheezy smile*” and i went up stairs to go to bed. today while my mom was in the shower(because she always takes a 30min+ shower) and my dad was mowing the lawn, i decided to snoop thru her room, phone, and computer. i found a double ended toy that was in her drawer, and a bra that was way too big for her was under her bed. in her phone i also found a txt conversation that was very detailed and vulgar, and at the very end it even said “omg, its a good thing we stopped when we did” my mom answered ” i know, i dont think he thinks we were doing anything” and then her friends sister said “oops! i left my bra there” my mom answered” ok, i’ll bring it to you tommorow” and her friends sister answered “it’s a date ;)” i also found lesbian p*** entries on her firefox history but that could have been either hers or my dad’s
i know i’m wrong for snooping but it was bothering me so much that i had to. what am i supposed to do. should i tell my dad? or tell her that i know? im just really confused. and how are we supposed to go to family parties and stuff (that we do often, that include her best friend, her husband, and thier kids which are my friends, and sometimes include my moms best friends sister, and her one 9 yr old)
my mom is 40, her friend is 48 and her friends sister is 36
