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So, this morning me and my girlfriend of nine months split.

For context: My ex-girlfriend is 18, I’m 22. We both have mental health issues, struggle with depression, anxiety, mood disorders, etc.

From the get-go, I took her in with all of her (12) animals and devoted every resource to both her and them, money, time and attention. I gave her everything, quite literally, I’ve fought for this girl for months, even as far as getting kicked out alongside her, just to make sure she had someone at her back. I stuck by her through hellfire. The two of us made a joint homelessness claim and moved into temporary accomodation together, I’ve supported her day in day out, washing her, cleaning up after her, basically acting as her carer, but without claiming any of the benefits. Every penny I’ve had has gone towards her, as well as countless handouts from my obviously reluctant Family, who still continue to support me regardless. We’ve always fought, but today it got physical. She destroyed my mood with belittling comments and in the frustration I took a swipe at her notepad, ripping a page. I felt bad and I made a move to apologise, but she punched my shoulder blades twice, then went for my throat, I’ve got scratches, she tried to throttle me, I had to fight her off.
I started screaming at her and got in her face in the heat of it, I did lose control, I was harsh. She headbutted me, burst my nose, I didn’t think, I just reacted, hit back, in the stomach. I knew immediately I shouldn’t have and in that moment all I wanted to do was make sure she was okay, but I just started to pack.

Does this make me abusive or was it self defense? I can’t justify my actions, I feel wretched. I’m a lot bigger than she is.

TL;DR, gf and I fought, she punched, choked and headbutted me, in response I punched her back. Does this make me abusive or was I within my rights as a human being?

All Comments

  • you’re an idiot, what she’s gonna do next in her life?,I mean she’s 18!

    Anonymous January 21, 2019 3:55 pm Reply
  • I think that was payback. If you defense yourself you would stop her. Im not saying you shouldnt defend yourself even if youre hurt. But thats what i think it is. If youre both struggling with mental issues i dont think its a good idea to be together. But i dont know if youre happy you go for it.

    Anonymous January 21, 2019 4:00 pm Reply
    • Agree, I went through this type of relationship and it was toxic for sure

      Anonymous January 21, 2019 4:02 pm Reply
  • I think you should fuck her into submission when she’s out of control. Since you’re so much bigger than she is, hold her down and force your cock into her. You should also not be afraid to use her asshole. These states don’t have to be without pleasure so feel free to use your cock to keep her under control.

    Anonymous January 21, 2019 4:05 pm Reply

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