I am a straight 29year old man from the UK. I went to a music festival recently and became separated from my friends, and found myself talking to a guy who was wearing the exact same shirt as me. Long story short, I found myself leaving with this guy to go sit in a pub and things got a little deep. We talked about everything and somehow we started kissing outside the place. I was feeling really strange but really loved it too…
we went to his car to “talk” a bit more and I was getting freaked out with the whole experience. It had been going on maybe 2 hours. I felt so attracted to him and was really getting off on us being all over each other.
I gave him a b****** in his car and he did it back to me… it was crazy and so out of character for me. I’ve never been with another guy before or even found myself remotely interested in guys.
Me and him went our separate ways without exchanging any personal info, but now I’m finding myself wanting to hook up with another guy. I loved the feeling of being with a man and I think I want something more, like full s** or possibly a relationship… do you think it’s just a phase or a fantasy, or am I really gay? This is so scary.
I haven’t told anyone about it but I’ve been thinking about every minute for ages now. Like a switch has flipped and I’m no longer interested in women whatsoever.
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you might be bisexual, actually i had a similar experience with a girl, and thought i was lesbian but turns out im attracted to both so i consider myself a bi female now.
There’s nothing wrong with your feelings mate, it’s the 21st century.
You owe it to yourself to explore it.