I have laid there in bed awake at night and watched my wife m*********. She thinks I am sleeping and when I move or show any sign of waking up, she stops immediately and pretends to be asleep. When I wanna have s** she says she is tired but will m********* when she thinks I’m asleep. I have offered to just eat her out and make her c**, but she turns that down too and then plays with herself later that night, but when I am too tired to have s** she gets upset. WTF. Every time we do it I always eat her out until she climaxes so I know she gets something out of having s** with me. Why is she choosing to play with herself over the real thing?
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You need to talk to her instead of asking random strangers on the internet on how to fix your sex life.
my sex life is great, we do it at least weekly and she usually wants it more than I do, but when I don’t feel like it or she is on her period, she masturbates while she thinks I’m sleeping. I like to watch her but at the same time, I feel like less of a man when she does. Masturbating is fine, it’s part of life and everyone does it, but if I jacked off in front of her, she would freak.
Nope! That’s exactly what you need to do
When she starts up on herself , wait then you start on yourself…if she freaks be gentle but let her know you enjoy watching her and it turns you on.she’s doing it so..just join in.that’s all you say, just joining in.
Your reply is a complete contradiction to what you said in your post.
Sometime an outside opinion can help out perspective on it!
Masterbaters are selfish my guy. They prefer doing themselves more than pleasing a partner.