We are a perfect couple in charitable christian ministry with great kids and a happy home.
Reply: Your husband is an alcoholic and it is a disease and one which he enjoys and won’t recover from and his behavior with you is consistent with how some alcoholics behave when they are drunk and out of control.
You hope things will get better, but they never do and things, if anything, continue to get worse, but still you stay with him because change is frightening – but in reality, you really don’t have much choice because sooner or later, you need to make that change, take your kids and leave him for good.
After Cronavirus, however when there will be a lot more empty homes and opportunities you can take advantage of to better yourself and your kids independent from him.
Don’t make the same mistake, next time around – you don’t want a partner who drinks, smokes, gambles, or takes illegal drugs, who is not violent, or manipulative, towards you and your kids and who you really like, just to begin with and avoid iphone dates, if you can in favor of more conventional ways, like through a dating agency, where the person you connect with is real, or meet at a coffee shop and if they don’t show, then they were not real after all.
