To: I’ve been having an affair with my brothers best friend for.. well about a year now. I’m 22 and he’s 36 Me: No!! You are probably attracted to an older guy because he is much more mature than your boyfriend and he appreciates you not only because s** with you is great, but because of the age difference as well.
You have met someone who has more going for him, probably, than your boyfriend and it counts against your boyfriend that he has hurt you in the past and could do so again in the future, so you probably regard him with insecurity, because you don’t want to be hurt again.
This guy who is 36 has a clean bill of health with you and his reputation, hopefully, is unblemished.
If you relate to him and you are both getting feelings for each other, then it’s time to move on and leave your boyfriend behind.
We only have one life and we have to do the best we can for ourselves and I don’t feel your boyfriend is the path you should continue on, nor I suspect, do you.
Best Wishes…………….
