Married for many years, the last few being very lonely and unhappy. I ended up on tinder just for fun- mostly seeking the attention I wasn’t receiving at home. It escalated to sexting with a an old classmate from years ago. It wasn’t long after this that I started seeing a guy from tinder who also goes to my gym. He and I had an affair ( I lied to him and told him I’m separated).
I saw a divorce lawyer but my husband and I decided to work through it via counseling and a lot of talking. He doesn’t know I had an affair. I don’t feel terribly guilty because I think something like this had to happen for me to fully appreciate what I have in life. I realize how lucky I am to have a spouse who loves me and I really love in return. I hope he never finds out bc he’d probably leave me (I can’t say I’d blame him).

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