I like someone. But. I’m hesitant to push forward because that person had a fling with a close friend of mine. Yes, it ended with them being apart but I can’t get the idea of that person being “used” by my close friend. It’s a terrible way to describe that person but there is no way for me to explain it. What bothers me more is that I’ve liked that person, before that ordeal between my close friend and that person I liked. In addition, what furthered this crap even more was that my close friend told me, “I was by that person first. So I’m in the right to take that person.” Upset and frustrated in many ways.
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Well if I as a man thinks about it, say there was a girl I like, who liked me a long time ago, but nothing happened and we separated. It didn’t end bad we just separated and had each other in our minds the whole time.
Then years later I ended up with a woman who by coincidence is good friends with the first girl, and I got used and hurt, and ended up regrtting and not liking the second woman… I would be really happy and I think better off if the first one came back into my life and I would wonder why she never just stepped up or found a way to step up and said something, because I didn’t know, and would probably have rather spent my time with her, a woman who cares about me, truly amd for longer than the newer woman.
I would hope I didn’t unknowingly hurt the first one during that time, you, because she’s special to me. I would not have meant to and if I did, it was because I was blind and couldn’t see her.