Okay…
I think I might be lesbian/bi (romantically at least).
There’s a guy that I like (I’ve recently found out that he likes me back, but that’s not relevant) that we’ll call X.
However when I’ve been with some of my female friends, I’ve felt really… weird.
I’m not nervous around them like I am around X, but I still feel some sort of “connection,” almost. It’s not s***** – I’m 13, I shouldn’t have s** on the brain – but I feel like I want to get really close to them.
My feelings for X and my feelings for the female friends are different, and it’s really f****** me up.
Am I just blowing this out of proportion? I only feel this way about two girls, it’s not just how I feel about friends.
I’m known as asexual at school. If anyone was to mention asexuality, my name is always brought up first. I don’t really WANT to like girls, and I’m actually kind of scared in case I do.
Fffuuccckkkkkkk.
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it sounds like you might like girls and if you do its fine you shouldn’t feel bad about it
I know, I know.
There’s nothing wrong with being lesbian/bisexual/gay/whatever, I have no problems with who people love.
I just don’t really WANT to like girls; I can’t explain it.
-OP
you might just feel like that because your not sure yet and it feels like a big deal but if you end up realizing that you definitely do like girls you will probably come to terms with it and it will be fine
It doesn’t feel like a big deal per se, it’s just… Kinda annoying?
I think you should give X a try. You might decide you like guys better.
…Yeah, I should. I’ll ask him and say how it goes.
-OP
Maybe it’s sensual; human beings are physical creatures so basically you can be “starved for touch” and you want to touch them. Romantically or sexually tho means you’re probably bi! Plus dw if you’re only 13? Lots of people figure out their sexuality earlier on and you can find out later than you’re straight, or maybe pan, or anything else!
That sounds weird as fuck
-OP
Sexuality isn’t binary. Relax, try everything. Discover what you like and fuck what anyone thinks.
…No offence to anyone, but this is literally the only comment I’m finding useful.
-OP