So I’m gay And I’m 16 ; I have not told anyone and I go to a school which is kinda liberal I know my friends would accept me but I know for sure other students won’t . I know I can trust my friends but there’s always a chance if I tell them it could get out to school which would be bad news for me. I won’t be able to tell my parents until I’m older because if they kick me out I have no where to go and there is a high chance of them doing if they found out I’m gay as fuk
But I didn’t come on here to tell you I can’t come out yet
I have a crush on my friend let’s call him chase I recently learned chase is bisexual and keeps kinda askin me questions about my s******** I lie and say I’m straight ( I lie badly if I might add) , I think he knows something which could be bad . I couldn’t tell him I’m gay even though I’ve wanted too because chase is a gossip he would tell someone and then the whole school would know. I like chase I would love to come out and be a flamboyant parade of rainbows with him hopefully one day I could but not right now .
Well and then there the chance chase won’t like me which is a decent chance since chase could have anyone he wanted he has girls hitting on him all of the time and maybe he just wouldn’t like me
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I live in Portland, which is so down for LGBTQIA lifestyles. Its easier to find support here than it is anywhere else I’ve ever lived, and I still can’t come out to my parents as pan because they’re christian af. Its awful trying to hide that much of yourself, and relationships can be difficult at any stage of life (high school especially). I’m sorry chase has a huge mouth and you can’t be open w him. I just hope you know that no matter what your parents/assholes at school feel, or whether or not chase likes you, you still always deserve to be loved. It’s unfair and shitty you have to wait, or be secretive, but i hope you know you haven’t done/been anything wrong here and I hope you get your chance to be yourself soon <3
I say to both of you – they know, everyone knows, your parents, your pals, everyone knows already. They have conversations about you, don’t you know that? 🙂
I am just like you. I am gay. I am 16. And I do not know how to tell my parents or anyone else because I feel as though they are homophobic. ? I am also afraid that my parents may kick me out. ?
ElliotJavieo
Ya i get you