I have to remember, nobody wants to know what I’m really feeling. Nobody truly cares. They only ask “how are you?” to be courteous so I simply reply “I’m okay” and nothing more is said.
I am so very alone and unhappy.
I have to remember, nobody wants to know what I’m really feeling. Nobody truly cares. They only ask “how are you?” to be courteous so I simply reply “I’m okay” and nothing more is said.
I am so very alone and unhappy.
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Try telling them the truth a little at a time but you can still say it out it out there or just say your not having a good day and if they ask what can they do? Go have a coffee or drink w them you never know!people will surprise you
I have done that a few times but nothing has changed. People rely upon me to listen to their problems, as though I don’t have feelings.
However thank you for your reply and suggestion.
Ok I understand everyone dump there feelings on you and you have no outlet !
Been there! I learned that you are special like me we are tougher than most we care!
Too much ! We listen we think on there thoughts and want to help
We think they don’t care but the best way of showing you like them admire or respect someone is by pouring out there heart to you. They probably think the world of you! Really like ourselves they are caught up in issues..As for us We must tow the line alone….a lot ! If your really desperate
Try a support of some sort , I bet you would become a leader in it in no time
You like to help you listen! That’s real! That is Awesome.
My outlet is music, along with meditation and going for a walk.
I do feel I’m being useful by listening as people talk about whatever they want or need to say: I never try to tell them how to live their lives and I don’t judge anyone.
Thank you for taking the time to reply.
That is correct people rely on you. Leaders stand alone an shoulder the weaker
Ones.I know you have great feelings otherwise you wouldn’t listen !
These people know they can tell me anything and everything: I’ll never betray their trust.
You can’t expect people to read your mind
That’s true and I don’t: I would simply like for someone to actually listen to me when I honestly respond “I’m tired “ or “I’m a little lonely” or “I’m feeling a little depressed”
Thank you for your reply.
When you stop pretending and are honest, I am sure people will listen to you talk about your problems.
I’ve tried being honest and people would say things like “oh you’ll be alright – everyone has problems”
However I thank you for your reply
True! Been there too!
They unlike you, are too rapped up in themselves to understand.you must understand that! This all boils down to you knowing your position in life is to care for those who cant do for other people like you can !
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