• 2 weeks ago

And if we’re platonic, and she wants to hold or feel my hand, I won’t expect anything else. I’ll take it, I would hope it is something but not expect it or make it something it isn’t, respect, but like I said… say she has a boyfriend…. first of all, I might accept it but also maybe think negatively about it because if that was my girl, that’s a line crossed…. I don’t want to be an accessory to a cheating. That’s not a good way to start a meaningful relationship UNLESS I have a strong feeling that whatever they have going on, might have run its course. It is what it is and if it’s over, it’s over. I won’t hold it against her if she sees something in me if she is in a position like that. I’ve probably been that guy more than once myself. When it’s over, it’s could be worse than her, you doomed relationship girlfriend, and me, a complete stranger coping a bit of a feel in some way because we like each other on some level. Even though that’s the sucker who usually ends up friendzoned. The shoulder.