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Kinda sucks because sometimes I want a relationship but the thought of being in one disgusts me. I don’t understand why. I got asked out yesterday by a friend of mine and it made me feel panicky and gross for some reason. I get the same feeling when people flirt with me and I’m wondering if it’s because I got molested when I was little. I hate wearing revealing clothes too, especially bathing suits. I fantasize about the idea of guys checking me out, yet when it actually happens, I just want to run. I don’t know why I feel this way. Nobody else seems to have this problem, and other girls my age already have boyfriends/girlfriends and have lost their virginity.

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  • I think that part of your past definitely still has an effect on you, and it will probably for a long time.
    It’s also hard to feel like you may be losing your independence.
    I hope you can find someone, if that’s what you want, who understands you.
    Best of luck.

    Anonymous February 13, 2020 11:38 pm Reply
  • Tell whoever wants to date you about being molested as a kid and wanting to go out, but scared at the same time.
    If they are sincere they will understand and take things slowly with you.
    Don’t become a Wallflower or left on the shelf and end up being lonely and bitter.
    Think or life as being one huge opportunity and what happened in your past as being another test, for you to overcome.
    I was molested a few times and beaten frequently as a child and it did absolutely nothing to stop me living the life I always wanted for myself.
    You are not alone and in fact, you are probably one of the many who also experienced what you did, so you really have no excuse to not do and make something of your life.
    The harder the task, more often than not, the sweeter the prize.

    Anonymous February 14, 2020 1:15 am Reply
  • We’re quite similar but I was only a punching bag, nobody molested me. I’m so sorry that happened to you. Being hurt so young affects the ability to trust unfortunately. Counseling might help you weigh the pros and cons of starting a relationship, boundaries you’ll need to have respected, etc.

    Anonymous February 14, 2020 2:20 am Reply
  • I got molested and I had a few attempts to lure me away afterwards. My mom never cared about me and I was a sex addict before I was old enough to drive. Now it disgusts me to a degree too idk why.

    Anonymous February 14, 2020 2:53 am Reply

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