I used to drive for Uber and Lyft sometimes.
One Saturday night about two years ago I got hailed to pick up a guy, but that wasn’t the case, the guy who I was supposed to pick up put this very drunk girl asked me to take her home, he was upset with her gave me an address written on paper which is unusual With a 100 dollar bill which is against the rules, but Uber treats us driver like s***, so f*** the rules.
Anyway, I thought he was getting in my car but he started to walk away and I said “hey aren’t you going to go home and take care of you girlfriend?” And walked back to tell me that he doesn’t know the girl that she just sloppily drunk at the bar they were in she was being disrespectful to herself and everyone there so sending her home before someone kicks her a**.
Okay so now I’m like great. But I’m looking back at her and she seemed okay so I said let me take her home so nothing will happen to her, plus I wanted to keep the 100 dollar bill.
I start driving off and about 3 blocks away she wakes up and asks where’s her purse I stop the car and open the door and took out my penlight only to see her purse on the floor and pointed out to her and we preceded to drive to her home.
She then starts talking to me about how her boyfriend is a football player for a NFL team and she found out he often cheats on her. Now I usually come across a lot of people who tells questionable stories so I tend to not believe them, she then starts crying loudly and cursing like a crazy person and I ask her to please calm down so as I’m just crossing the bridge she starts screaming and hitting me in the back of my head calling me a m*********** and bro. So I stopped my car got out grabbed her which I dropped on the road and asked her to get the f*** out.
The crazy b**** then immediately smiles and laughs and says “come f*** me, you wanna f*** me?” I was not interested, especially when she just attacked me so I said f*** no and once again said please get the f*** out of my car. Keep in mind we’re in the middle section of the bridge.
So she starts screaming r***, so I let her know that she was being recorded and then she starts talking s*** about how her boyfriend is a big football player who has gangsters for friends and how she going to tell them I tried to r*** her and they are going to f*** me up. I tell her again that she’s being recorded and no one is going believe her b*******.
She then starts demand that I give her back her purse and I said you come get your purse if you behave I will take you home she then agreed and as she was crawling on my seats to get her purse that when I grabbed her upper arms and pulled her out my car closed my door and jumped back in the drivers side and left her in the middle of the bridge.
I got off the first exit and felt bad because it’s very cold outside so doubled back and caught up to her as she was almost near the exit and asked her if I let her back into my car will she chill the f*** out and she nodded yes. This time I let her sit in the front seat with me and She didn’t say a word to me until I got her home and she broke down crying and apologized to me. And I walked her to the front door of the building she lives at to make sure she was okay.
Fast forward 11 months ago I went to the Birthday party of a friend of a friend and guess who was there? The crazy b**** who attacked me in my car. I was shocked and also nervous she might pull some crazy s*** and cause me some embarrassment but that wasn’t the case.
She didn’t mention it to me and was very social in a nice way. It was f****** weird, but realized she remembered that night and didn’t want to be embarrassed herself so it was cool. Two weeks after that party my friend calls me and tells me that the girl has been asking everyone she knew at that party about me and my friend told me he gave her my full name.
So a day later she sends me a message on Facebook where she gave me her phone number and asked me to call her. I dilerberated over it for nearly a week because I was interested in what she had to say but I also feared her crazy.
I called her and we had a really nice talk like at the party and few weeks of talking to each other on the phone ended up turning into us dating exclusively and it turned out she wasn’t lying about the NFL player either.
This woman who I saw at her very worst and inspired me to be my very worst is now my very best friend and I can’t imagine being without her. So I’m thinking about buying her an engagement ring and asking her to marry me.
Am I crazy for this?
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Boy, you’ll regret this.
She must be really hot if she put you through all of that the very first time you met her and you can forgive her. NFL players usually date hot women. Hot women are the craziest of the crazy women. She might be sweet now, but she might show you her crazy side again if you marry her. Good luck. 👀
Don’t marry that level of crazy
If she attacked you once, she’ll do it again.
Has it ever occurred to you that she might have some very serious problems which is what drove the NFL player to cheat on her?
Most men cheat because of the women they are with drive them to do so.
You said it yourself, she took out her rage for the NFL player on you.
Women who exhibit such violence and bad behavior most likely had been sexually abused by an adult at a very young age.
The first time you met her she was a lunatic, and the fact that she pretended to not know you and play it off cool around so many people indicates a bigger problem, she could be a psychopath.
Because you didn’t embarrass her at the party she took that as permission to manipulate you. She made sure to find out who you are and then searched for you online to friend you on Facebook?
Dude, she’s playing you and I’m guessing that she must be very attractive which is possibly why you’re blinded to her game.
Don’t be in a rush to marry her. If you’re still together in 4 more years and everything is smooth sailing then maybe I’m wrong and it’s safe to marry her. Take your time…
Bullshit. You have no statistics to back up your claim of “crazy women drive their men to cheat” no one put a gun to her boyfriend’s head and second about the sexual abuse. Youre way off base here and assuming too much about the girl who btw he fell in love with and turned out to be his very best friend. Crazy story tho. And the only thing i agree with you is he should wait but not 4 years. Life is short and it can be gone in an instant.