I have so much love to give but people keep breaking me starting from people who are really close to me. I am nice to them but between their ups and downs, I am nothing to them just someone that can be yelled at to get the bad energy out. I always try to keep it positive but I really want to give up being positive and maybe even shut my emotions because people keep on breaking my heart even with the smallest thing can say. I feel like I lack love. Please comment somethingg.
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I am sorry. That is awful to hear. You sound like you have compassion fatigue. When was the last time that you focused all of your love for other people on yourself? Seriously – a day filled 100% with self-love, doing all of the things that you enjoy doing, nothing held back.
Some people do not deserve what we have to give. Some people need it, but can’t appreciate it. All relationships have to have some give and take. If you feel like you are the one giving all of the time, that is also on you. Have you thought about your personal boundaries and the expectations that you place on others? Maybe you need to re-adjust them because no one is going to get it done for you.
It’s hard, but the only person that is going to make sure that you’re alright, is you. It’s one of the most painful realizations, but life does get better when you understand that.
I hope that things start to look up for you. And I hope that the people in your life begin to appreciate you more, because you deserve their love and appreciation back.
Take care of yourself, OP.