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ive been with a lot of guys but i think im a lesbian. i told my parents i was when i was little, multiple times over the years, until i was assaulted and i just kind of forgot about it for a long time completely. and i always been obsessed with my best friends, and never liked s** much. but i feel like i cant be gay because ive slept with so many guys. that isnt something id apply to other people, but i cant get rid of that feeling towards myself. please, any other lesbians /gay people had much straight s** before realizing fully? i feel like i have to move countries before i can be comfortable telling people i think im gay. everyone knows ive dated / slept with men i feel like theyll laugh at me and no girls will want to date me.

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  • I’m not gay myself but sexuality is on a spectrum, and it could be that you like girls a bit and guys a bit and possibly one more than the other. You hear plenty of stories about gay people having relationships with the opposite sex and even getting married and having children before they realise who they are really interested in, so it’s not unusual. I obviously can’t give you any advice about coming out which sounds like it’s really difficult if nobody accepts you. But I hope you can at least accept yourself. There’s a great video I saw recently of Graham Chapman from Monty Python, who also had relationships with women before he realised he liked men better. He basically talks about how you shouldn’t care what the neighbours think, and it’s very funny but also makes some excellent points. I hope it makes you feel even slightly better about yourself. Best of luck.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nwOcc-buSsg

    Anonymous June 1, 2018 3:17 pm Reply
  • I tried to copy the youtube link above but it didn’t work properly. If you’re interested, look for Graham Chapman opinions on youtube. I liked it anyway.

    Anonymous June 1, 2018 3:20 pm Reply

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