I’m really confused about my s********. I always thought I was straight and assumed these feelings I felt towards members of the same s** (women) were just jealousy. However, I now find myself feeling these feelings towards certain women aren’t actually jealous. I feel my heart beat increase and I feel a bit warm whenever certain ones are near me, I’ve even imagined kissing some. I tried testing if I liked them by seeing if I could imagine myself having s** with women but, there always feels like a mental block is there unlike how it is when I imagine s** with men.
I can imagine kissing a woman but not having s** so, I don’t know if I’m gay or if I’m just confused since a lot of my friends are gay and a lot of people constantly ask me if I am gay. Maybe I just subconsciously started to copy the motions but I don’t know.
I can’t go and experiment with a girl to try to find answers since, I’m in a relationship and have been for the last 3 years.
Does anybody else have a similar feeling or insight that can help me, it’s been driving me crazy
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Why can’t you expeiment with it? If it’s something your curious about, you owe yourself to find out.
Experimenting with a person who isn’t your partner is cheating unless your partner gives the ok which, doesn’t happen very often in relationships from what I’ve seen
Do you love your boyfriend? If not then break up and experiment.
You might have sexual feelings toward males, but romantic feelings toward females.
Also you don’t have to be worried about being influenced by other people who’re gay. It’s really hard for that to happen : )
Exactly, or talk to your boyfriend about it. You never know an individuals capacity to understand until you try.
I do love my boyfriend which, is why it gets confusing. He’s actually questioned me before asking if I’m dating him because he does act very feminine and in a sense is like a girl romantically (the female stereotypical stuff of being emotional and flamboyant) but, a male physically.
I feel the same way but idk what to do
i was the exact same why like down to the tea girl, and then i realized i was bisexual, maybe you are to.
Biromantic, heterosexual? It’s a possibility…
I actually didn’t know that was a thing… I might have to look into that more, thank you!!
I’m pans and asexual.
That is such a loser term! I.e. I can’t keep a relationship.so I’m just not…..this term takes go fuc k yourself to serious!!!!