• 3 years ago
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I was raised by a strict father who use authoritarian parenting to raised me and my brothers and it didn’t help me at all. It just weaken me mentally and emotionally as the years goes by. I think that my father believed that tough love would’ve made me a stronger person but it didn’t work. That’s why I often wished that my mother was around while I was growing up because she would’ve been able to give me the nurturance I needed from time to time.
So right now, I’m redefining what loves means to me because the love my father has shown me all these years, is toxic and unhealthy. First I’m going to love myself because I have realized that some people have a twisted idea of what loves is. The love that I have for myself is gentle but firm. I say this because I need boundaries and restrictions in my life but I also need compassion as well. Thanks for listening to my ramble. Have a nice day everyone!:)

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