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I live in a society where if you’re a girl you cannot take or make your own decisions, you can’t move out, do what you want or express yourself the way you want, everything is made for you to follow, I cannot dress the way I want, I cannot speak the way I want and I cannot live the way I want, in fact, I cannot live at all, I’m 19 and I still can’t get out of the house, because my parents simply don’t want me to, whether its a move-out or just hanging out with friends, I cannot do it, I mean I don’t even have any friends at this point because I don’t really leave the house which is not something I decided for myself, and as stupid it might sound to most people from the outside, people here think that it’s completly normal, infact if I complained to anyone about it theyd shame me for being ungreatful, so I dont know what to do about it, some people advised me to call someon for that, someone who could legally help me, but that would involve cops at some point and i would never call the cops on my own parents, besides if i wanna consider doing that i can promise you that im going to get hurt, because i will become shameful for the family that theyd wanna hurt me, and trust me i have so many physchos in my family, so i wouldnt be safe to doing that in the first place, i thought about running away but then i thought that they might be able to bring me back even tho im 19, im not really sure, if anyone has any advice or information on these matters please let me know.

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  • They just trying to protect you girl..

    Anonymous February 26, 2020 12:01 pm Reply
    • protecting me being locking me in? okay.

      Anonymous February 26, 2020 12:08 pm Reply
      • shut up bitch some people have it worse

        Anonymous February 27, 2020 1:38 am Reply
  • You’re screwed. You need to escape your whole society.

    Anonymous February 26, 2020 12:02 pm Reply
    • Shut up bitch

      Anonymous February 26, 2020 12:04 pm Reply
      • this is definitely coming from a man.

        Anonymous February 26, 2020 12:09 pm Reply
  • Walk out the door idiot. I’m a girl when I was sixteen I got emancipated you are nineteen..

    Anonymous February 26, 2020 12:30 pm Reply
  • I can totally relate. I’m 26, and still stuck at home, my mental health is crippling and my parents don’t allow me to seek treatment. I’m nonfunctional and still my parents don’t give a shit. They just want to marry me off into another oppressive family even though I’m resisting. It’s cruel. I could kill myself I can’t breathe I’m good for nothing I’m a waste if space and my mental health is deteriorating. How cruel can parents be? How can they not want their own daughter to feel healthy? This is beyond me. They have been abusive their entire life only now to throw me to the wolves. Fuck this life.

    Anonymous February 26, 2020 1:16 pm Reply
    • Is this you’re thoughts or the internet? If you come here everyday you’re probably brain washed into thinking there’s something wrong with you. I suggest you find any other site then this if it’s got you feeling down.

      Anonymous February 26, 2020 1:31 pm Reply
      • So true…

        Anonymous February 26, 2020 4:43 pm Reply
  • You are probably Muslim or Hinu, where you have to be very careful not to do anything to offend your parents and cause their family dishonor, because if you do, they might probably murder you, or send you back to the country of their birth, to be murdered there.
    The internet has been great for those of us with Western culture, but it has shown those of you in your situation that there is another world out there, but unfortunately not for you.
    When you are married off, your parents will decide who to and they will make the decisions which will affect you for the rest of your life, in just the same way that your parents, parent, in turn arranged marriages for them and if you get a nice and a good husband, hopefully you can make it work, without disgracing your family at any time afterwards, like divorce.
    Should divorce occur, whatever you do, distance yourself from your parents, brothers and sisters and don’t let them find out where you are and don’t ever, ever, agree to a holiday overseas with them, as a divorcee, they will probably kill you to preserve the honor of their family or your husbands family.
    There is no way out for you.
    You cannot become involved with anyone who your parents do not approve of, because if you do and they find out, then you have cast dishonor on their family and all they can do is kill you, because family honor is more important to them than anything, irrespective of which country you live in.
    I wish I could suggest a solution, but any Western solution, puts your life in danger and your survival is most important, as is your continued virginity.
    Best Wishes……..

    Anonymous February 26, 2020 1:54 pm Reply
  • Your parents may be over controlling or overprotective. You may live in a stifling society where this may be the norm or they may be taking it too far. The first thing to do is contact independent advisors with a good reputation either in your home country or abroad. Use a search engine to find one whether it’s women’s rights organisation or LGBT or other human rights orientated organisation. Police do not need to be involved at this stage.

    You may need money and a passport to leave your country. If you have to leave to escape an opporessive society or oppressive family do not go to a favourite place and never contact any old friends or family again for the rest of your life.

    Good luck.

    Anonymous February 26, 2020 4:52 pm Reply
  • You can do whatever the fuck you want. The only one stopping you is you! At 19 you’re a grown up. If your parents tell you to stay home stand your ground and remind them of your rights. Go wherever. School, programs, classes, gym, park, malls,etc. Where the fuck do you even live at? Afghanistan?! In those places an unmarried dude also can’t make any decisions for himself.

    Anonymous February 26, 2020 7:30 pm Reply
  • thsi bitch a joke kys

    Anonymous February 27, 2020 1:38 am Reply

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