I’m a guy and when I was almost 18 i started to have feelings that it would be better if i was a girl, long story shot im almost 21 and haven’t got rid of those feelings I convened myself for a while the opposite and life went well for a short period but now they’re back and i have a constant -every one to two- days depression hits becasue of it since the first time i had these feelings and thoughts
what do you guys think ?
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and yeah i forgot to mention that even tho I’m still attracted to girls
I looked it up online and it’s called a “transbian”
I’m so lost
help
Hey, I left a comment before I saw this, please read it. All the best to you!
Sorry, forgot that it’s anonymous. I wrote in my comment that I think you might be a transgender woman.
So what? You’re in touch with the feminine side of your being. Many guys are. They’re enlightened, sensitive and not far over on the macho side. Embrace it, be a genuine person, relate to females. I do and wear girl clothes at home. Not an issue.
It’s completely okay to feel different than you are and take a step towards changing yourself. I’ve seen a movie about a transman who was still attracted to men, he still had breats when he fell for a guy. He went through so much embarrassment when he was find out but nevertheless he got the guy he wanted. Anyway, if you’re sure about your sexuality and that you feel more as a female, u should try pursing it because as we living in 21st century we have a real chance of being who we really are. I’ll root for you! 😉
I envy women for their natural effortless feminine body
like most of them don’t work for a great body not like males who can’t have that masculine big strong body without making a ton of effort for it you know what im saying ? and we live in a time that doesn’t require hard physical work like the past to achieve masculine body over time without thinking about it you know ?
even in sexual relationships the big stress is the guy to LAST and today’s society and life is very depressing and puts a lot of stress on everybody add to that pornography and masturbation and boom we have one of the most common problems in males : Premature ejaculation
im so depressed
It sounds like you might be a transgender woman. There’s help to get so you can live as a woman, because some people are born with a body that doesn’t match the gender of their brain. Check out /r/asktransgender and /r/traa on reddit and ask the community there for help! They can guide you better than I can, depending on where you live 🙂 You’ll be fine, there are many other girls like you. (Now you can reflect on how it felt to be called “girl”). I wish you all the best!