Is it possible to address someone’s promiscuity as a negative impact without slut-shaming them? My friend sleeps with practically every guy she meets, I’m 99% sure she’s a sex addict and needs help, but every time I try to talk to her about it she says I’m slut-shaming her, free lifestyle, blah blah blah. I’m the closest she’s got to family, so if I can’t get through to her nobody will. Advice?
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You could be blint and ask her why she fucks so many retarded men? Tell her she needs to be more selective, and most guys are actually retarded so if she takes what you said into consideration, she’ll be fucking a lot less.
Is she being careful?
She better be using protection and getting tested every now and then.
Stds are not a laughing matter.
So long as she knows what she wants and is smart about diseases, i’d say let her do what she wants. Sex isn’t a bad thing m’kay
Go to websites about sex addiction. Learn the details. Then tell her calmly with eye contact in person what she’s doing and how damaging it can be. Let her know how important she is to you. Have her take a quiz, 6 – 7 questions. If she answers yes to most of them she’s a sex addict. Offer to help her find help. Be firm and a real friend.
Tell her like it is. Sometimes people need to be slut shamed. If you don’t tell her flat out she’s just gonna keep making it seem like you’re the problem when you’re not and you’re just trying to help her.
Having a healthy enjoyment of sex is good. No one is a slut for that. Sex addiction is more & harmful.
You need to get a strap on and fuck her dominantly, she will then stop fucking around and only fuck you.