Why does my wife not get it? She shows no emotions. She doesn’t cry at sad movies, and love songs are just another noise to her. We been together a long time…and have never …Never ..had a song, or a moment where we were overwhelmed by emotions and lost control. I cant share any moments w her ,she has made me suppress my emotional feelings. We have never had that chemistry. I guess i just live in some fairytale, hoping she’ll one day wake up. And we will connect.
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As an addition, she is so caught up in her religion, she is afraid of ” losing control ” . Shes afraid she’ll sin….wtf!
Her inhibition is so powerful it rules her life….Help
Your wife better not be overweight, or I would beat her with a hammer!
Is she a sociopath?
Well that’s what you wanted and that’s what you got shut up.
As a sociopath, I can relate to your wife. As an atheist, I don’t understand the faith aspect. However, I would advise you to talk to her about how you’re hurting inside. She might not know. She might be heavily brainwashed by her religion. You could try taking her to a church/temple/etc of her religion that isn’t as extreme as she is used to, maybe then she will start to become more open.
Maybe you could try connecting to her on her level? I’m agnostic, but biblical imagery does sometimes compel very strong emotions in me. Try to find something in her religion that moves you and then share it with her.