I suffer with anxiety and depression and there’s a lady that, I’ve really started to fall for, we met at a comic con last year and since then we’ve been talking here and there, not all the time or anything but a good few times a week but because of my mental health issues I can’t help but feel like I’m not good enough or that she’s going to flat out reject me and such, I doubt myself a lot, for all I know she could care about me but I dunno, I can see more reasons why she wouldn’t date me than why she would, I know I’m over thinking and I’m worrying too much, honestly, the last couple of days I’ve been having these types of ups and downs, its just one of those days, I dunno, I mean for the one person who’s probably read this and possibly even cares, I have gotten help with my anxiety and depression, I’m on medication and I get by with life, its just times like this just hit me hard and I had to get this off my chest, I mean if you have any suggestions for trying to cope or even advice about what I could do to maybe win her heart or anything, it would be appreciated, not necessary but appreciated, if you have read this and do actually care, thank you, even if you don’t, I hope your evening/morning/afternoon is treating you better than my mind has been treating me
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If she lives by you and you see each other, I would give her flowers or candy. If you don’t live near each other, then maybe you could ask her to meet you somewhere between where you live for dinner and/or a movie. Either option gives you the chance to judge her reaction, and also let’s her know you are interested. You also avoid having to confess any feelings. How she reacts to your actions will determine if you’ll ever be anything more than friends.
Thank you for your advice, she doesn’t live too far from me, a small bus ride or so away so that’s possible
I’m sorry you feel this way; you’re not alone. Try being a woman; you would be made to feel much worse about yourself.