I’m torturing myself over the abortion I have had 2 almost 3 years ago. I wanted to keep my child/ son but the father didn’t… My mother and he advised/ pushed me to have an abortion. I never should have listened… I regret it everyday. I was told I’d be alone and that he would leave and that mom wouldn’t help me… I was scared the state would take my child from me or that I’d have to liven in a shelter and I knew that was no way to raise a child but I still thought of keeping him… Everynight I cry, I mourn like I lost him… I feel horrible and I don’t want to feel this way forever… I hope God can forgive me so that I can hopefully forgive myself. I should have just listened to my heart and not my situation… Anyway I hope God will forgive me, I want more then anything to be a loving and kind mom….
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Liar.
What horse shit. There are too many options available to women these days, and it’s not an easy task to get an abortion with all the requirements for counseling and alternatives to abortion unless the fetus isn’t viable. You’re a lying pro-lifer (pro-birther) spouting fantasy and you should kill yourself.
Do not cry over something that has already been done. I also had an abortion a few years back and it IS very easily attainable so that other anon commenter is simply disrespectful and unfortunately has no idea what they’re talking about.
Depression after an abortion is completely normal. Your body is suddenly missing something that it was trying to grow and your hormones can go crazy trying to figure out just what to do next. Talk this over with yourself and realize that what happens, happens for a reason and if you want it then a day will come when you will become a mom who is available and amazing! But in the mean time, there is no point in beating yourself up over something from the past. Be present & Good luck
Lying liar. Maybe in large liberal cities. Most places have extremely limited access to abortions and require invasive tests, counseling in alternatives to abortion, and other bullshit. She had no business having a child. It was best for her, best for that unwanted baby, best considering she had no support system. Pro-birth bullshit makes me want to VOMIT.
Hm I must be quite lucky, considering all I had to do was sign a few papers and then there I was sitting in the clinics waiting room a few days later for the abortion. Also you seem to be jumping ahead of yourself or confused(?) If you would have asked I could have told you I am not pro-birth, I believe in pro-choice. Lastly, the original poster claimed to have an abortion herself, not birth a child. So you and your comments really are quite confusing and possibly misguided. ???
Shut up, fucktard. The poster above was perfectly clear in calling you out on your bullshit.
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I’m so sorry you had an abortion
I know it’s devastating
Honestly one day you will start to forgive yourself
The only way I know to really forgive yourself is to have another child even then it’s never quite the same
I hope you find peace soon
I know you’re hurting. I had gone through what you did and carried the grief and guilt for a long time. It will get better eventually, and I hope that someday you’ll find a good man who loves you and who wants a family with you.