My boyfriend is out of my league and I know many women want him. He’s so far out of my league that women hit on him in front of me. I’ve never worn makeup before or drastically changed my appearance but I’m thinking I should start. I don’t care if I’m beautiful but I love my boyfriend and he’s the only person that loves me. I want to keep him. What do you think? I’m thinking to start wearing makeup, get my teeth whitened, going blonde, stop lifting weights, and maybe getting breast implants?
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Don’t change or ruin yourself by accident don’t become what he didn’t fall for in the first place, seriously. Ive known girls who liked me that I honestly didnt notice and wish I did, and when I did notice and was interested and flattered they went crazy they turned into everytnng I didnt want. Woah… hold the train here, what the fuck are you doing? Are you serious? She just kept going until she was not anywhere near the person I first noticed and thought she was. I still don’t know if she was genuinely driving me away or hate for me not noticing, or a game I just have no idea, but what I saw I didn’t like. Don’t do that. Be yourself and don’t pressure it. Maybe he likes you because you’re not the other girls. I’m like that.
You’ve given me a lot to think about. He is with me and not the women I would be trying to look like. I still worry that he’s just with me because he is very loyal and we started dating young… But he had options then too. Maybe, like what happened to you, my abandonment of self is what would cause me to lose him. Thank you.
Obviously he likes you just the way you are ! I’m a guy, and you can’t change who you’re attracted to.Be the best version of you. No one else can. Sounds like a lucky guy to have you. Stay amazing.
Thanks! People usually just say I’m lucky to have him but maybe we are lucky to have each other. I’ll definitely follow your advice and just try to be the best me I can. I used to smile a lot before I got worried about my teeth so maybe I should try to be the happy and positive person I was before I let this get me down.
Talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel and ask him for his genuine honest opinion. the best relationships have clear, open communication
You’re right. I would want him to talk to me if he felt like this. He keeps asking me if something is wrong and I keep avoiding talking about it. That’s not fair to him.
Dude, just put up with it. I had the same thing. I take us out in public, every horndog is on it. I go to the bathroom, some guy is there hitting on her when I come back, 100% of the time. When driving, other dudes beep and try to get her attention at red lights. She was very nice to all of them, too, just very gracious. It didn’t matter who was paying attention to her, a teen or an old man, she never acted aloof or cold, just a decent person to all. Me? I’m nothing special physically. But I trusted her. Sometimes she would go out to a club wearing shorts that showed all her thighs and half her ass, just smokin’ hot, and she would come home at 2:3 in the morning. I knew she would talk to guys at the club and they’d stare at her, but I knew she loved me and was loyal. It was a lot to put up with but I dealt with it.
Oh man, you totally understand then. The female horndogs are always up in his business and he is always civil with them. Though my boyfriend is a natural flirt so he’s a little more than decent with them. I don’t think he’s cheated though. I guess that’s the price of falling in love with someone so handsome.
If other women hit on him that has nothing to do with what you look like and If he loves you then he obviously thinks your beautiful anyway. Please don’t do any of those things to change your appearance it would be sad, I personally think that natural beauty is the most attractive and it sounds like he probably does to. The fact that you don’t wear makeup or have cosmetic surgery and you lift weights (so I’m guessing your fit and strong, athletic) are probably all things he likes about you.