I’m in love with my best friend. We’ve known each other since primary school and I’ve loved her since then. Thing is though, the love is unrequited and its slowly killing me. It hurts so much. I know that I should move on and get over it but I can’t, I want to but I just can’t. What the f*** am I supposed to do?
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Talk to her. Be honest. Let her know your feelings and figure it out with her. She may not feel the same towards you but at least let her know that you love her and how much she means to you. Talking about it with her or someone you feel is willing to listen to you and give advice will help you come to a closure.
She knows, I’ve already spoken to her about it. No she doesn’t feel the same and I think that’s what’s killing me the most.
I am in the same position, you have to talk to someone about it. Other wise it will ruin your life or you will rnd up taking it. Because it ended up making me be unable to sleep, started drinking too much i would pass out from it. I think i even ruined the friendship as well.
I need a time machine i need to fix it.
Try to get your mind off of her for just a while. Do something fun, go exercise and try to talk to those who are close to you. I may not understand the heartbreak that you’re going through, but I do know that you have to confide in those closest to you about your problems and the stress that you’re going through. If you don’t feel like you can do that or you feel like it isn’t helping you, give yourself some alone time. Spend time by yourself and don’t think about how she doesn’t feel the same toward you, but more about how you can learn from this and how you can try to move on. Moving on may be very, very hard for you to do, but you must try.
I’ve tried moving on, I’m constantly trying to move on but it feels like there’s an impassable wall blocking my way.