I’m sitting here, crying, because I’m afraid no one will ever love me romantically. That I’ll be alone, and never have kids. It’s been my dream to get pregnant and have kids, and I’m afraid it’ll never happen. I’m almost 29 and never had a relationship or s**. I want to have a relationship, have s** and have kids. I’m scared its too late. No one has ever shown interest in me. I dont know what to do.
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I was in your shoes but found someone eventually. He’s an asshole though and I’ve come to terms some of us are meant to be alone.
you sound like me. I went through the exact same this in my mid- late 20s. could not find a nice guy or nice sex anywhere. no one nice ever offered me a date or nice time out for genuine friends. never got a offer for even dirty sex but for some old fag of 47 when I was 20 which was insulting cuz he was creepy wearing a dress. I hope what happened to me happens to you and you get what you need.
Virginity tends to be stigmatized in the West, but that’s mostly for men. Most guys would be elated, to say nothing of honored, to be able to take the virginity of an older female virgin. I dated a gorgeous woman for a while in her mid-twenties who told me early on (first date, in fact) that she was a virgin (she still lived at home and had insanely controlling parents), and I didn’t care at all. So don’t worry about that, even at 29. I’m sure they’ll want an explanation, but that doesn’t mean they’ll be judging you.
I’m guessing since you haven’t been approached you probably put out “don’t come near me” body language vibes, and I’m also guessing you probably don’t put yourself out there as often as you might. Because there’s someone out there for everybody, and if women are willing, guys are going to be there.
You still have a few years to find someone and get to making babies, maybe even more based on your genetics. A year is a long time, and if you really buckle down on this, you can get it solved. Why not get into therapy with someone who deals with dating, relationships, and sex? Your issues aren’t uncommon, and I’m sure they’ll be able to help you on your path to self improvement. And then you’ll find the happy relationship you want.
what a wonderful comment. I’m not the person who posted but I loved your comment.