I’ve come to realize I will never have a significant other. I will never be loved by anyone except my mom. I am an asexual, and I avoid physical contact. Maybe wit the right person I could get over the second part, but it’s the first part that eats at me.
My friends have always scold me when I say if I get a boyfriend or girlfriend who isn’t asexual, I’ll let them sleep with other people as long as it didnt mean anything. As long as they still loved me. They say I shouldn’t do that because if my partner strays, then they aren’t interested in me anyway.
I’m not sure what to do. I kinda want someone. Someone to cuddle up with at night, cook dinner together, maybe go out to a party or two. But I’m not sure if I’ll ever get anyone, or if I should. I don’t want to hold someone back just because I don’t want s**…
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what does asexual even mean? i’m so confused with al the sexualities. isn’t it the same as pansexual? no offense to anyone but google doesn’t explain it that well
Asexual means you pretty much don’t have a sex drive. You have no desire to be intimate sexually. Being ‘intimate’ is like cuddling and sweet kisses.
Fellow asexual here, in the same pain. I have so much love to give, I’m just tired of paying for it with sex
Asexuality doesn’t exist in humans.