My mom is driving me nuts. She has multiple illnesses, and every day she wakes up in a bad mood, is in a bad mood all day, and goes to bed in a bad mood. She’s always angry, screaming (supposedly with pain). And she always says disgusting things about wanting to die or kill herself or others. She always talks about how she was wronged but she can never see how she wronged others. It pisses me off as she lights a cigarette while on 4 liters of oxygen and tells me how smoking is helping her. What an idiot. She is taking the biggest toll on my mental health, especially with anxiety, because I need to be around her 24/7. What do I do to escape????
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Help her goddamit that’s your mother the women who brought you ass into this world and cared for you while you was shiting in diapers she wasn’t on a site confessing she was cleaning your ass when you woke up crying in the middle of the night she wasn’t on sites she was rocking you back to sleep singing lullabys jeez this is your mother do what ever you can to help her she’s got illnesses she probably doesn’t know what she’s doing half the time, give her the help she needs this way doing something good got her will make you feel better too I promise, you can do this man. There was a time you couldn’t do anything for yourself yet she did. There was a time in her life where you didn’t exist, but there was never a time where she didn’t exist in your life..
I’ll bring her over to your house…you probably wouldn’t last a day with her let alone 30 years. And I’m battling my own health problems right now- type 2 diabetes(I did lose 40 pounds over thenlast few months which I’m so happy about!) and a pre-cancerous condition which could make me infertile. I have to have another surgery next month and I try to do my best but it’s very hard and draining. And to always hear her speak negatively about everything is doubly draining. Trust me, I’d love to be changing a baby’s diaper right now. It would be a great honor for me. But I don’t know if I will ever be able to have children. Hell, I don’t even have a job. Between her issues and my health, I cannot find the time to use my degree. Life sucks.
Sorry I didn’t realise how bad it was… I honestly would help if I lived closer, I manage and work at an old folks home so I would totally help, I’m also sorry about the condition your currently in.
Thank-you ? Life always seems to get better and I still have a lot of hope for the future. Best wishes to you.