Why didnt you tell me about her? Why didnt you tell her about me? It feels like one of us is your secret and I dont want to be either. I feel hurt that I could come up in conversation with all these random people but not once with her. Why? I can understand being a private person. But I cant understand this one. She obviously wanted to be with you and you didnt make it clear that I was here. Why am I putting in all this effort? What am I waiting around for? I am making the effort to be ok with being poly even though I dont want to. Why are you making it harder to do that? Havent I been trying so hard to do the thing you want? Why keep me a secret?
